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Can a woman have multiple or overlapping orgasms? Can we have better sex, or longer, more frequent orgasms? If you answered no, don't believe it!
We've been lied to, ladies. Not only is orgasmic pleasure ours for the embracing, it's ours to enjoy!
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Our ability to orgasm touches every part of our lives.
It’s time to realize the dream of frequent orgasms and fabulous sex! We invite you to settle in, put your feet up, and take a break from a hard day. Take a slow journey through insightful, helpful articles to help you connect the points of orgasmic pleasure.
Whether it’s through open communication with your partner, taking your time with foreplay, or exploring your body solo, we’ll guide you in discovering what brings you pleasure. Your mental and physical well-being, along with sexual health, all play key roles in this process.
Overcoming Sexual Turn-offs: How to Enjoy What You Like
Having inhibitions doesn’t necessarily mean you don’t want sex, but they can certainly limit your ability to enjoy sex. Learn 7 tips to overcome blockers to a happier sex life.
Make Friends With Your Feelings: Unlock the Joy of Close Bonds
What turns an “okay” sex life into a great one? For women, it all starts in the brain and gets better with emotional closeness. Learn how making friends with your feelings leads to mind-bending orgasms.
Exploring Female Anatomy: Your Guide to Pleasure Points
Dive into an exploration of female pleasure points and discover the key to unlocking sexual excitement. Let this guide inspire you to embrace your sexuality with confidence.
Healthy Sexual Communication: How to Have “Those” Talks with Your Partner
If sharing your deepest sexual desires with your partner is difficult, this article is for you. Learn how to open up about your desires and boundaries for a better sex life.
I am more aroused generally since I started practicing the Basic Technique
Is this normal? Yes, it's quite common to experience an increase in arousal and sexual interest after adopting new practices like the Basic Technique (BT). This heightened state of arousal can be attributed to several factors. Firstly, engaging in...
How do I go about telling my girlfriend?
Explore how adopting the Basic Technique may lead to increased arousal and a deeper interest in sex, through frequent and intensified experiences of pleasure and orgasm.
Is Breathing That Important? I’m Used to Holding My Breath.
Yes, breathing plays a crucial role during masturbation, just as it does in any sexual activity. Focused and conscious breathing can significantly enhance the experience in several ways: Increases Relaxation: Deep, slow breathing helps relax the...
Why the G-spot? Why not the A-spot?
The interior of our vaginas have several erogenous zones. The G-spot or zone is the most well-known. The A-spot is one of the other spots or zones in the vagina’s interior. Here is a great article on the topic. " Everything You Need to Know About...
I like holding back from peeing when I masturbate. Why change?
When we feel the urge to pee, we may not choose to pee right then. Instead, we may use our muscles to hold off from peeing. We may need to devote some conscious thought to use those muscles. Such thoughts can take away from submerging ourselves...
How do phases work for the Basic Technique?
Specifically, aren’t the elements of the first phase also used in the second phase? Yes, the first phase elements carry over into the second phase. The first phase covers the time up to and including your first orgasm. The second phase...
I feel deserving of pleasure. Do I still need to yell “I deserve”?
“A = Announce” is one of the elements in the first phase of the Basic Technique (“BT”). By yelling “I DESERVE THIS PLEASURE!” or “I DESERVE!” or “DESERVE!”, we affirm our right to pleasure. Many of us have difficulty accepting that we deserve the...
Does using the Basic Technique increase libido?
Explore the potential impact of the Basic Technique (BT) on women’s libidos, as reported in our recent blog post. Although results are not guaranteed and based on a small sample size, many women express substantial improvements after using the BT. This is not a scientific study, but anecdotal evidence of possible benefits.